Don't get me wrong she is not like Cruella. Like I said I can give you so many other examples of her sweet and giving nature. Today she went to the store and bought some stuff for my daughters that they like because she knew the shelves were close to being empty. She just has very high standards and is certainly strict around some things that I am not. She also has high expectations for him. Maybe sometimes she just forgets to let him be a kid. Maybe better balance at times. IDK,
Long term parenting styles would have to be a topic of conversation, one that has not been had yet. There would need to be give and take on both ends....truthfully my daughters could use some more structure and her son could benefit from a little more kid time. Maybe we both would help balance each other out.
If I felt the Doc was not a good person I would certainly not subject my daughters to her and it would be over.