Wondering what the vets here do to deal with the pain of the PA/EA.
Detach. Get through withdrawal of H. Let go. Find indifference.
Indifference is one of the mile markers on the LBS’s path. We become unfeeling towards our spouse and their behaviour. We then learn who and what we truly can control.
And pain usually has its roots in fear. Let go of fear.
All things that will come about - in time.
Keep the focus on you. Let time do it’s work.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
