Thanks for Reply AS!
I agree. If she does it like IN MY FACE then I will have to say something.

Got some negative feedback at work today and started crying, a lot.
Lots of feelings coming out. Which is good.

Still very much considering D..
Whats your guys take on my IC saying to go for D?
He didnt expressivley say it but asked what was holding me back and I didnt really have good answers.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021