Originally Posted by LH19
W,

It happened because you allowed it to happen. Toxic people love drama and you two feed off one another. My friends parents were like that when they divorced and it really fuched him up. I’m afraid this will also happen to your children. For whatever reason she doesn’t respect you and gets off on emasculating you. You take it from her because you need to still feel connected to her.


That’s it? She does it to just drive me crazy? What to make herself feel better? I know I shouldn’t have allowed it to happen, but why does she continue? She got what she wanted. I leave her alone now. I’m focusing on my own life.
LH you said we feed off one another. How do I? Anytime I contact her now it’s about the kids. She is the one that will bring something up. Does she do it to reassure herself that she is making the right decision? I just don’t understand her thinking.


M:42 XW:41
T:19 M: 15
D:13 S:10
BD: 8/10/18
Moved out: 8/18
Moved in: 9/18/18
Moved out: 4/22/19
D papers signed 11/4/19
D final 3/18/20