I'm sorry, she no longer posts here. Yes, she provided quite a bit of good info concerning her own crisis, as well as her husband's crisis. However, please keep in mind that timelines, descriptions of what she and her husband did, are just guidelines. Each person is different, i.e., personalities, childhoods and coping skills. So, please keep an open mind, observe, and continue to learn about MLC and depression. Depression is the main ingredient of a MLC.
As I posted elsewhere, please start a thread of your own so that we can assist you. I would also suggest that you continue to read the postings that others have posted. Some are new and traveling the same path as you and others have older postings that have lots of valuable information and sage advice.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
