Afterwards I feel torn/ambivalent/unsure if I did the right thing. As established in my first thread her talking with OM in my face and then talking about her feelings is hugely disrespectful. But she didn't know when I was coming home and they/she did end the call...
As long as she wasn't talking about OM then I think that's fine. If she does talk about OM then just tell her you're not interested. Regarding her talking to him in the house, it's very disrespectful but there's not a lot you can do about it. At least she hung up, that's more than many WAS's will do.
