It’s probably also a good time to check myself as well. I have had the docs son all week as it is spring break. I am off on vacation and thought he could just hang with us so she wouldn’t have to pay anyone. Maybe it has been too much for my girls as they both broke down and started crying. They said they don’t want to leave our house and they don’t want me and the doc to get married and why can’t me and their mom give it another shot. I didn’t get into the details of me and their mom but I just told them that me and their mom love them both very much but that we were not getting back together again. My 10 yr old started to probe a little deeper however I just told her that mommy and daddy just couldn’t be happy together. I still think she is too young for all the details.
It seems whenever they get tired, as they were last night, they become more emotional over things. Anyway, just a reminder of how slow the pace needs to be. Obviously my girls aren’t ready.