Good input Vapo.
Will get a new credit card since she has my details.
Also moving health insurance (if I die) to the kids.

In this topic. I had IC today.
He thinks D as soon as possible. "Give her the 6 months, but start planning for your new life."
What scared me the most of our conversation was "what happens to you if W loses her job tomorrow?"
House, bills etc etc...

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021