At this point, I just continue to DB and GAL. Detachment going well, to the point that I'm not even sure I'd like to save this M at this point. We retained a mediator in January. I have sent the info I was asked to send along, but to my knowledge, W has sent nothing in yet.
W continues to be chatty (no R talks). I just listen and validate. She seems to be paying more attention to the kids, too. She is still staying at her friend's house each night as well. Not sure how long I will continue on this course. Taking it one day at a time.