I am so grateful to be someone who is beginning to be able to advocate for myself and not abandon myself. I was no doubt the poster child for a desperate, needy LBS. I felt like if he didn't love me my life is over.
Now I know, no matter what, my life is mine. My future is mine.
OG, I admire you for your progress and how you are standing-up for yourself. I hate that this is happening to you, but I do get strength from reading your posts as well as others in the same situation. It's just a shame we have to go through this. ((hugs))
Me: 47 H: 45 T: 24 M:23 D23 BD #1 12/19: ILYBNILWY BD #2 2/20: I discovered H was having an affair with OW. (OW is 21 and lives in another country) Current R status: Separated.
