Envisioning has helped me a lot! Example: Just a month ago I couldn't even imagine living ANYWHERE else but our house. "I'm going to buy your share". After a friend said look whats on the market and I found something that I can afford and that suits me and my daughters I have started envisioning what it would be like. It would actually be awesome!
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021