There’s a lot of layers of concern here. Outside of the ones already pointed out is the fact that this woman was engaged so your gf has no respect for that commitment. Also, if gf is friend’s with this woman’s fiancé, it’s just another huge betrayal.
I feel sorry for this woman’s fiancé, too.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
