Your next move is to figure out who you are, work to become the person you really want to be, and stay mentally strong with a positive mental attitude.
I know you want to take action and wrap this up by yesterday but you can't. So you stay in the moment and make the best of this time.
I notice a bit of pain in your post:
Originally Posted by Mumin
She obviously isnt home and I sort of hope she will be commenting on it tomorrow. So I can NOT answer.
I certainly understand why you could be hurt, but remember to work on letting go of the past because you get to control your future.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.