Originally Posted by kto626
You are right Steve. I guess I thought talking about D wasn't considered R talk.

I feel like I make steps forward and then fall back. Every time I know she's with the OM I have a hard time not trying to fix her. I know I can't but I find myself thinking I should. That's my hardest part.



Yep, that is because men are wired to be fixers. If there was something wrong with your car, you'd want to fix it.

However, you can't fix her, but you know who you can fix? YOU! Get the book No More Mr. Nice Guy, read it. I assume you are reading DR. When I was in the thick of my sitch I was reading 3-4 self-improvement or anti-D relationship books per month.


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M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018