I agree 100% w/what peacetoday posted to you about looking on dating sites. Finalize the divorce, get through the divorce, take the time to heal thy self and then consider dating. You want to have both feet firmly on the ground and not be so vulnerable when you begin dating.
There are definitely far better distractions and/or hobbies that you can put your focus on at the moment.
Give yourself the time to grieve the loss of your marriage and when the time is right, you will know it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
