let's forget gender: she went to a party, spent the night at someone else's home and came back with of all things a hickey.

I'd have a problem with that.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver