Affair Fog-LRT

[MrBrside]

I'm thinking I should file but then I read that statement and think I haven't given this a try long enough. I might give her 1 more month but then file, wait 30-60 days and then turn it into the courts.

Filing is the last thing you should do - because you will not follow through with it.. I've seem so many new people come and threaten to file - thinking it will scare the WW to return. - From your posts, you are desperate to get your WW back and i think you feel this will scare her back home. If it fails, i feel you will backtrack which shows weekness - Not attractive. - Bye bye respect.

Normally, someone as stubborn as my W, how long does it take for them to move through their concussion and reconcile? I don't know if she would, but if she did, how long do W's stay away for? Months? I'm trying to figure out how long this process is.

This was written less than 12 hours before your file comment. You are still focusing on getting her back, not focusing on you.

You need to realise that if she does end it will AP and come running back, the underlying issues are still there - I speak from expereince on this.. I found out about EA1 and ended it with my WW... She gave me a sob story and i took her back. But this didnt address any underlying issues ( this was months before i found this webite or understood the WW mindset ) and with 2 months she was flirting with other guys.

Respect is key here - there are lots of posts on it. You don't gain respect by being nice. I get the impression you have NGS. Try reading No More Mr Nice Guy.

Re your comment about letting her move back in - Personal opinion - I wouldnt allow it, as again you are giving that inch for her. This is your opertunity to man up and do your best by your daughter, showing WW that your dont actually need her there anyway.
If you do divorce, this would be the new norm anyway, so why not start now.. Focus on you, focus on your daughter..