It got me thinking and writing this morning. I posted about it on my thread.
In terms of finding themselves. I think the WAS is more exploring their identity, exploring who they are; while the MLCer has more lost their identity, lost who they are.
Each exhibit behaviours of exploring, growth, and such. The MLCer’s behaviour is more desperate and riskier. They need to feel something. They will try all kinds of stuff to run from their pain.
The WAS is not so desperate. They are more calculated.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.