O, she is in a dark place. No doubt about it. Very dark. You are doing classical newbie mistakes, but thst's ok. But you snapping at the good people here that only are only trying to help is wrong. You are forhetting that many of us have years and years of experience at this and we have came across hundreds of stories like yours. Believe or not, but your actions are pursuit. It might work, but the vast majority of cases say otherwise
It is OK to disagree with our advice, but please show some respect to the people whoo took time from their lives to help you.
