I know you are skeptical about the advice given here but the one thing I can promise you is that pursuit never works.
I understand the concept. Though, I am sure there are instances (maybe rare) where it has worked. But, I didn't look at the things I was doing as acts of pursuit. I wasn't doing them in an effort to win her heart (might not be how she saw it, however). I was merely choosing to love unconditionally.
I dunno, maybe if you guys knew some more of the things I know, that you'd understand why I felt she was someone that was not in a good place and really needed love and not the kind that would run at the first sign of trouble.
But, I think we're getting sidetracked with things I did before instead of focusing on what I have been doing.
