Hi all, just checking in. It's been over 3 weeks now and we have had zero communication. No communication from her directly, nothing from any lawyers, just nothing.
I'll tell you my mind goes back and forth, some days I still wish she will just message that she made a huge mistake, but most of the time I just want to be done having to think about this and move on with my life. I just wish I knew what was going on, does our marriage just mean so little that she doesn't even care to properly end it and she just doesn't even think about it? Is she still keeping me on the back burner? Is she cooking up some crazy legal case (not sure what she could even do)? This limbo period is very tough.
I can't understand it from her point of view either, we have common friends, so as far as I know she is still seeing someone, still living with her mother, you would think after almost 7 months you would want to get your own life back on track, she has a nice payment coming to her if we complete this divorce. She could ride of into the sunset with the new guy so to say.
I've resisted reaching out to her for an update, do I continue that path? Do I hire a lawyer and just have her contacted by the lawyer? Do I just simply ask for her an update?
I will say most days I'm just fine, just was thinking this morning and decided to post and get some advice about reaching out, vs just continuing to leave it alone.
