Now that I'm fully ready to step away, W is suddenly talking to me more, asking to do something as a family, initiating multiple non relationship chats. WTF.

One gripe I had after BD is that W didnt tell me how she was feeling and the D caught me by surprise. Being a WW and me DBing I think the recommendation is to not tell her how I'm feeling, right? So essentially I'm doing the same thing right back to her.

Should I ask for counseling one last time before I tell her I want to D and set up mediation?


H37, W37
D4, S2
ILYBNILWY 9/19
BD 9/19
EA discovered 10/19
Currently in limbo, no D or S process initiated