Like others have said, you need to focus on yourself first. Not so much on how you should respond IF he comes around.
Examine your part of the damage done to the M and work on what you can improve on yourself. There is always something.
It may really be over, or it may not. What he thinks/decided is out of your control so focus on what you have control over - YOU.
Originally Posted by pharm75
Also he said after some time he wants to be friends maybe... which is what he said the first time he wanted a divorce except the first time he wanted a divorce he wanted to be friends immediately after and I could tell he still had feeling for me.
Would you want to be friends with him the way he is now? Would you want to be friends with yourself the way you currently are? Just something to think about. His words don't mean much.....don't read too much into it.
Originally Posted by pharm75
This time around he said after time he would like to. he legit wants nothing to do with me. Sorey I'm not thinking straight. I'm confused and I cant seem to stop thinking about him. I'm exhausted after work and just sitting here, miserable and no energy.
I am sorry that you are feeling down. You need to GAL, find other things to occupy your mind other than HIM. Marriage is only part of life, not life itself.
