And in the past when he has said he wanted to be over, he has eventually after some time started asking me to do things like hang out, which eventually led us to talking again. Should I (if he ever) decline to talk or hang out if he asks?

I'm starting to see this is a super unhealthy situation we had.

I would push. He would pull away. I would push and get upset he would say its over.

Then when I left him alone he would eventually come around. And I would always be there.

I seem to think that wont happen this time because the way he is acting. He isnt being mean anymore, he says he wishes me well but it's over. He seems sad this time but determined to not have anything to do with me.

Anyway IF it were ti happen.. I decline?

Wouldnt that push him away further?