If it's important business matters like taxes, then do not ignore him.
If it's non-important matters, you don't have to respond right away, or even all the time.
Do not initiate contact or pursue.
Originally Posted by pharm75
2. If he approaches me do I make it one word answers?
Depends...
If it's important business matters like taxes, then have a normal adult conversation as you would at work.
If it's non-important matters, listen and validate.
Do not initiate contact or pursue. Don't be so available all the time, focus on yourself... hobbies, working out.
Originally Posted by pharm75
3. I asked him by text to borrow his truck to bring over a large item from my mom's home... he replied that we can do it this weekend. Do I just tell him I need the truck but I can do it on my own?
If he does ask me for help with something do I help him? I havent got the book yet Divorce Remedy so i have no idea what to do in certain situations.
If you can move the item on your own, then do it own your own. Show him you are independent, and that you don't need him. It will help you build confidence, and it's attractive.
(I'm not 100% certain on this next one... so let's see what other vets suggest here)
If he asks you for help, and it's something that really needs help then help him. But make him fit your schedule, you are busy doing your own stuff.
