You are so right , he can’t lean on me anymore. He was the one who said he needed to MO and feel like he’d lost me in order to understand what he wanted. I need to stand firm and not let this be a convenient solution or fall back. He’s pretty accustomed to having best of both worlds, isn’t he! I told him I’m not offering a storage facility and if he needs a storage solution then head down to Big Yellow Box or whatever nearby!!
What I’m unsure about now, is how to position myself in regard to being the lighthouse but not being his friend. How does that work?
M:49 H:49 T:20 M:18 D:16 D:14
EA: Feb 2019-May 2020 Separated: Mar-early Aug 2020 H asked to reconcile: Jun 2020 EA relapse: Oct/Nov 2020 Recon #2: since Nov 2020
