Is it possible you could do a month-to-month lease, which would give you maybe more a feeling of freedom? Or, on the other hand, is it possible you mainly want the landlord not to renew so that some decision is made for you, and you feel like you can take some action without really having to decide to take it for yourself? .....in terms of these decisions and other questions you're mulling over.
I am still trying to figure that out.
pros: - Find a place closer to school, (less traffic, closer to friends) - Find a place that is less expensive, in anticipation of D and financial changes - I can move him out without waiting on him to move his stuff out - H will not be able to come and go into my space as he pleases
cons: - disruption in our lives - getting rid of 90% of our things - it is just a pain in the a** to pack and move the whole place MYSELF
I think the cons are mainly the logistics. Moving to a new, smaller place I would have to get rid of a lot of furniture and just THINGS in general. things are not important to me. I guess 50% of it will be H's stuff anyway.
I feel like moving would be the right thing, but the more difficult thing for me to do....so if the landlord does not renew it will ultimately force me to do the right thing.
Originally Posted by oceangrl
It seems he wants attention from you and doesn't know how to get positive attention so he is hitting wherever it hurts for negative attention.
This is very true. Thank you for pointing that out. It is very childish isn't it, like a toddler throwing a tantrum.
Originally Posted by oceangrl
Do you have a support system outside of this forum? Someone you can vent to on the phone and have them build you up? I'm worried about you.
Thank you for your concern. I have a few close friends and few family members who know about it, so if I need to talk to someone, I have someone who's willing to lend an ear. Frankly I've gotten so sick of talking about it since it's going nowhere.
