Originally Posted by unchien
Originally Posted by oceangrl
For me to entertain being with him again, I would have to see a profound change of heart. I will not tolerate anything less anymore. And that I cannot control.

This is *exactly* the mentality that helped me detach more than anything else.



Unchien, I swear, maybe I FINALLY got it.


the best apology is changed behavior.
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me: 45 h: 48
m: 23 T: 26
DD1:19 DD2:16 DS:11
BD1: PA for 2 yrs 08/2016
BD2: OW is one of my closest friends 12/2016
BD3: H wants a D 11/2019