If you have the desire, time and patience, repeat step-4... but this time do not pursue in step-5.
Your mistake was pursuit. Be patient, let her reach out and propose next step at her pace. You can only specify your requirements and boundaries, but you need to show strength to be attractive.
Nothing is ruined... if you read enough threads on this board, this is just how it goes. You were not that close I've seen and heard similar things in my own sitch. They are confused, and anxious about going back to the old relationship. She was temp checking you, and throwing you breadcrums.
In the mean time, keep growing yourself... detach and GAL.
I've seen and heard similar things in my own sitch. They are confused, and anxious about going back to the old relationship. She was temp checking you, and throwing you breadcrums.
