My therapist gave me some sad but real advice: Going into a marriage is a fairy tale. Ending a marriage is a business deal. Cover your booty. Keep your eyes open. Know your rights and options. Hope for the best but expect the worst.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712