Needing to pull a last resort

[Ready2Change]

So, it does (or can) matter.

For some yes, for others no. In your case, you need to decide if there are things you want to change and then make efforts to change them.

Personal I believe everything happens for a reason and you are in the sitch to learn and grow. You are responsible for 50% of the relationship. There are things in your behavior that got you into this sitch in the first place.

Nothing is black or white. Many shades of grey in between. For example, if you are a talker, learn to be a good listener. If you are typically a listener, then learn to be more vocal. At some point, you will have to use discernment to figure out when it is appropriate to listen or when to talk or when to talk more or when to listen more.

One example out of 1000 behaviors that you can evaluate and decide if you have an opportunity to learn new ways.