WAW - is it too late?

[RVM]

So, when my kids talk back to my W, my W almost always drops in the, "you are disrepecting me" line or other comments about how to treat people.

While I absolutely agree with the message she's sending, it makes my blood boil hearing her say that. I've almost had to remove myself from the room to stop me from calling her out on her hypocrisy.

At some point down the road, she will have to atone for what she's done to this family and will have to answer some tough questions from my 2 Ds.