To be sure you know my intentions in writing - I didn't think at all you were lying or being untruthful about your feelings or actions. That seemed authentic. I guess I wondered (and I could absolutely be wrong here) if you had a bit of watering down to avoid chastisement. I get the sense that a lot of people do that here.
And I don't blame them. It can be overwhelming to have various strangers on the internet giving you immediate advise to a sitch they know a bit about but are not intimately familiar with the nuances of. I think sometimes softening the story to allow yourself some breathing room is okay.
I just wanted to be sure you weren't in denial about your own process, because you're still on the journey in the mucky-much of it. I think you will fare better if you are strong in your beliefs and understanding of self every step of the way.
Originally Posted by KristinG
I have stated time and time again that I don't want to be with someone that is in love with someone else. That is my focus in the coming days.
That is a good one. Can you add to it for balance? You know what you do not want. What DO you want? It doesn't have to be related to a R, but sometimes focusing on where you're going helps you leave a place you don't want to be.
