That is reassuring and good advice. I've just started to let go of the rope and realize it will be a long hall. I'm realizing (slightly) that dropping the rope is for me and not to get her back. The MC said yesterday that she's mentally unstable and he could tell for a little while (we saw him for months before BD) I am now going to make him my IC because I told W I'm no longer going with her...which means she won't go to him but is saying she will continue with her IC...we will see.
This site is a Godsend. I'm so thankful the vets are here for us all. Thank you for what you all do!
