I have not forgotten to GAL. I have a daily routine that takes care of me physically and emotionally. I am rotating through four different books right now-DR, a relationship book we are reading together (more introspective, own your mistakes than relationship skills), a mental health book, and fiction just for fun. I attend a support group twice a month. We trade off Saturdays for me time, and I've been reconnecting with friends, going to the park and library (two of my favorite things to do). I'm doing a painting class my next Saturday. I started attending a Unitarian Universalist church a few weeks ago. I take care of my appearance, and I am foxey as hell. I'm making art again. I 100% believe I will be okay emotionally if we never work this out. I will hate being a single parent and the financial part is overwhelming, but me as a human being will be great.