That does sound similar to my situation. The house is in my name and she's never put a penny towards it. Unfortunately, that does really matter in many states in the US. So with that said I won't lock the doors or change the locks.
I'm still reading through all of your posts but how did you guys turnout? I'm struggling to detach and not talk. I'm torn about the FaceTime because I've always been my daughters main support (with my W always going out on weekends) and I want to at least talk to her. It may be a change I need to make soon but we are 6 weeks in.
Today, after telling my W to only contact about our daughter if necessary, she texted asking how she was. Then asking me about my work. I swear she's trying to reel me back in. I didn't respond to the work question but I did answer the question about my daughter.
She has said so many things to reel me in. "I'm not sure if I want a divorce", "I'm don't want to be with you right now", when the MC asked if there could be an us, "Not right now". She keeps leaving the door slightly open. That's what makes things hard.