Just politely let her know that you are not open to that idea.
You mean not open to sharing a bed? OR to separating the beds and sharing the room? Not sure I can enforce her NOT sleeping in the house, given the kids are here and the days that she is actually at home are the days that are supposed to be her time with the kids... Will think and consider this during the week.
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Question in regards to a post by Steve85 on another thread, by kto626. So I guess the question is mainly for Steve but obviously open for anyone to discuss/answer.
On the other thread you wrote:
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The best thing I can see you doing at this point is to take her Plan B away. I would highly consider retaining a lawyer and filing for D.
I think our sitches are fairly similar however when I have mentioned D it has seemed most ppl say "wait", "let her do it" "how will that help you?" etc. So how is his situation different? I cant really see that.
To be clear, no matter I fully agree on not filing for D when you are not ready. So this question is more about whether filing is, in general, a good action or not towards a WW.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021
