Also question in regards to a post by Steve85 on another thread, by kto626.
So I guess the question is mainly for Steve but obviously open for anyone to discuss/answer.

On the other thread you wrote:
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The best thing I can see you doing at this point is to take her Plan B away. I would highly consider retaining a lawyer and filing for D.


I think our sitches are fairly similar however when I have mentioned D it has seemed most ppl say "wait", "let her do it" "how will that help you?" etc.
So how is his situation different? I cant really see that.

To be clear, no matter I fully agree on not filing for D when you are not ready.
So this question is more about whether filing is, in general, a good action or not towards a WW.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021