Affair Fog-LRT

[Mumin]

Hi kto, sorry you are here!
First i would suggest you read my sitch. It is quite similar.
Reading is always good. Sandi on WW is VERY good!
You have a huge amount of advice her in just a couple of days.
Take your time, so far you are doing good but detachment will take a LONG time.

Ending MC is good (even if going separately). MC is always a form of pursuit.
GAL! it is hard in the beginning (I still need to actively remember to GAL everyday) but it really helps!
Only you are responsible for your own happiness!

About your daugher, I REALLY feel for you!
The worst day of my life was not BD it was some time in December when I realized the effect on my kids, not seeing them every day and how I was no longer in full control of their wellbeing. It is really hard to accept and for me I will probably always be angry at W for how she treated this whole mess with regards to the kids.
However do make sure to talk to her (daughter) about this! Tell her whats happening. Be very practical about things.
My IC told me something good though, the most important part for kids is that they have both parents physically and emotionally available. Not every day, maybe not even every week but over time. So allow your D to have her time with W, you have no control over that anymore. I Highly suggest you stop FaceTime every day. W is in control and it might even make things worse for you D.

She doesn't live in the home anymore. She moved out on BD.

Do you co-own the house? Prenup?
If she is in anyway entitled to the house then you can not keep her out. Simple as that.


This is a marathon!