Wooba -- thank you for your words. It is a sad sad situation, isn't it?! We will get through this for sure!!! xoxo

Pommy -- My husband hit the MLC hard. The car, the gym, the toy's, unfortunately the affair...like you I pretzeled my self to be enough. I finally realize I cannot fill his holes. I can't make him happy. I had to go on a guerrilla warfare campaign to change my thinking and realize I am enough for me. Even if not enough for him, I will be for someone else. I listed to motivational stuff, did mantras, it sounds so cheesy but it is working!

Thank you both for your kindness!


the best apology is changed behavior.
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me: 45 h: 48
m: 23 T: 26
DD1:19 DD2:16 DS:11
BD1: PA for 2 yrs 08/2016
BD2: OW is one of my closest friends 12/2016
BD3: H wants a D 11/2019