Should I reprogram the garage opener so she can't come in the house? I feel like I set a boundary and she crossed it.
Hi Kto626,
I see--so you view the home as "your space", and feel violated when she enters? The only issue is the home is probably "shared space" unless she's formally agreed the house or some portion of it is yours to exclusively occupy or you have a restraining order or some other special condition applies. I don't see you having much luck enforcing your preference on your wife. If you change the locks, she could hire a locksmith.
My ex-wife and I did create a formal agreement within 30 days of my first bringing up divorce. She got exclusive occupation of the shared space, but in return paid me rent until we sold the home.
