On the pictures in the office.... agree with not changing what you have done (in total). But how about a little adjustment:
Would a 180 be for you to go out and get a pic of just you and the daughter, something real nice? Do a nice frame and just add it to the collection. You don't need anything crazy like a giant mural or anything.
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13