How do I detach? I'm still wanting to contact my W who is still in contact with the OM. I need to work on myself. I have told my W I'm setting boundaries because it's time to work on me. Basically, no contact unless it's for my daughter. But it's hard, I lost my best friend...even though she isn't my friend if she had an affair for a year.

Thanks again to all of you. This forum is very helpful.

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