The complaints she did bring up about our marriage have kind of been all over the place and inconsistent.
Can you share some examples?
Also, how old are you, wife, daughter?
How long have you been married?
Not paying for enough things, even though I used the credit card she told me to use. Using my phone too much, even though she was on hers about 3 times as much. Not "jumping" to pay for my mom when we went out to dinner, even though she told me, every single time, before we got to the restaurant that we were paying (and what card to use). Her insisting on always doing certain things, refusing help, and then being angry that I didn't know she wanted me to (and of course, angry if I did do something, but did it my way)
Every time I countered anything she would drop it and just switched to something new.
She has admitted (placated?) to all of this.
I guess I should also mention that the exact same thing happened in her first marriage when her first daughter was the same age as ours.
I'm 42, she's 40. Step-daughter is 15, daughter is 2 and a half.
