You wouldn't even believe what happens next in this story. I am a little concerned that at some point, somehow, my wife finds this thread so I struggle to share all the details. I really wish I felt comfortable sharing everything. It would make you want to rip your hair out, drive to where I'm at, and shake the living hell out of me.
But get this, my shrink today told me that I'm being abused and I need to stop letting it happen. I mean its crazy to me that my wife rails about how she is being abused and then my shrink tells me I am being abused. This relationship is toxic. It does need a major shakeup. It cannot continue like it is.
Scotty B,
I don’t think it’s uncommon for your shrink to tell you what you want to hear. I really do no think you’re being abused. I’m also concerned that you are heavy into denial in the stages of grief. You really have to try to let go.
