Thanks BenB

[Mumin]

Ovr, you were quicker than I expected. Didn't plan much more than prepare mentally to be solid/strong. Went well but could have validated I guess.

We chatted a bit about kids, her weekend and my job.
Actually feels weird to socialize with her. Don't really want to.
While I was prepping for my day tomorrow she said she turned the heat up in the cabin.
Me - are you going to sleep there?
W- well one of us is, I guess.
Me- I am planning on sleeping here (pointed to the bed which she was actually sitting in)
W- oh really. (agitated) well ok. Feels like your taking control of the house.
Me- I want to sleep in my bed. That's what feels best for me.


So now she is outside in the cabin.
Found myself looking at her through the window.
Both feel anger and that I miss her at the same time...
Now sleep. Gym tomorrow morning.


Also, realize this might get a bit weird for the kids. Mommy sleeping outside...
Any perspectives or things to say to them are helpful!