I don’t know your entire story but in the last few posts I read it sounds like you treat him like a child. “You need to go to bed” “he should have come to me about how to cc paid”. Do you see how that is probably emasculating to him?
Was this an issue throughout the marriage?
I do...
This is a man who can't get himself up to go to work and blames me for the reason he is up so late.
I have been seperating out his credit cards and typing a list of his usernames and passwords and websites for him. Removing myself as an authorized user... today he blasted at me. Who, uses X as a username??? Where does that come from??? Its not me - I wouldn't have that username. Its emasculating...
Yes, he feels it... he is running from it... yet he still can't get his butt out of bed for work... so what do I do????
I'm d*mned if I do and d*mned if I don't... he doesn't get to work it will be all my fault because he has the drive to do.
