If you knew she would never stop saying things in front of the kids (or others), what would you do? Would you give up and continue to live in it? Would you decide to separate or divorce? You have to determine how valuable self respect is to you. When you figure out how valuable your self respect is, then I think half the battle will be won, b/c you will walk & talk like a confident man who doesn't take stuff off anyone.
These are all the questions I battle daily. I very much realize that I have to draw the line and establish clear consequences. I guess I need some advice on appropriate consequences. I've tried confronting her/walking out of the room at times, but those don't hold any water nor do they look great in front of anyone.
I do feel like I have to set a deadline on when I've had enough; time to file for divorce and move completely forward with my life.
M: 40s W: 40s 2 Ds PA suspected Summer 2019 / assumed still ongoing BD: Fall 2019
