I started reading DR...So, here I am. A new comer, in the last resort stage, trying to figure out what I need to do.
What made you decided LAST RESORT TECHNIQUE was the first path to take?
DR listed "your spouse has already filed for divorce" as a situation calling for TLR. And that made sense considering our current level of communication. And it seemed to be along the lines of what I was already starting to do (focus on me and my daughter).
That makes sense to me too, it follows MWD's guidelines for when to implement the LRT. I was in LRT mode pretty much the instant I got here too. MWD said if your parent says they want a divorce and he/she is serious then you should LRT.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.