I stated ---- "I know you have felt screwed over in your first divorce and you are feeling screwed over right now. I do not want this. I am trying to hold it together but I know that if you want a divorce I cannont stop you. I do not feel that this is the answer to our problems but I cannot keep you here"
^^^^^^^ I pulled that from what was posted for me earlier in my thread... I'm learning and trying my best to apply.
He was petting cat when I said that and not looking at me. Not sure if he heard any of it or understood any of it as he didn't say a word back.
I told him he needed to go to bed. It's 2pm and he will likely NOT get himself up again for work...
